Most of us walk around thinking our thoughts are our own, but often the seeds of our beliefs and mundane thoughts are planted there by the culture, governments, news outlets, teachers, preachers, friends, family, advertisements, social media feeds, institutions, corporations – by people we love and people we don’t, by people who care about us and people who do not. The intentions behind the planting of those seeds range from well-meaning to straight up nefarious.
 
Discerning what is true – what you want to keep and what you want to weed out – is the daily, moment to moment, work of a lifetime.
 
I consider this a cornerstone of spiritual practice and the very foundation of rewilding.
 
Back in the very early day’s of The Wild Woman Project, I was inspired by Walt Whitman’s guidance: re-examine all you have been told in school or church or in any book, and dismiss whatever insults your own soul.
 
It became my central practice to question everything, over and over again, until I had a sense of what ideas I wanted to let blossom within me and what untruths I needed to pull out.
 
I wonder what Whitman would have to say about the re-examining process needed in today’s world, where most everyone is walking around with computers in their pockets, interfacing with so much corporately curated information, constantly in relationship to so many thoughts, opinions, and feelings of others. There is so much more to re-examine.
 
I wonder how many people realize just how pervasive outside influences have become in their own heads and hearts.
 
I’m currently running a year-long personal experiment in the name of weeding out the influences of other people, institutions, and corporations. I’ve been off my personal social media for all of 2021 and part of 2020. I make offerings to our Wild Woman Project channels, but hardly ever go on there myself. I’ll have a lot more to say about the experience when the year is over, but I can say now, the effect of this social media fast has been dramatic.
 
Social Media, by its very design, is a place where people meet ego to ego. “Here I am, here’s what I think, here’s what I did, here’s what I’m selling, here’s a picture I took of myself.” Now, egos aren’t all bad, an ego in service to the heart is beautiful. However, an ego running the show can be corrosive to relationships, society, and to our own psyches. Because social media, again, by its design, invites and encourages ego expressions, feeds are often filled with advertisements, boasting, opinion announcements & unproductive arguing. Those kinds of idea-seeds are exactly the kind I, personally, want to weed out, because they so often insult my soul.
 
There are so many ways to re-examine, so many experiments you can invent for yourself to make sure you are clear in your head, in your heart, and in your Soul.
 
These are times of loud, alarming voices coming from every direction, while mind-bending, unprecedented changes are taking place in society. In my whole 37 years on the planet, discernment, it seems to me, has never been more important.
 
So, I’m calling on ‘ol Walt to help me with it, repeating the words: re-examine all you have been told…dismiss whatever insults your own soul.
YOUR TURN
 
What about you?
Are you taking time and finding ways to re-examine what you’ve been told? If so, how?
Please share in the comments below.
 
Can’t wait to read ‘em.
 

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